WHAT TO TEXT AN AVOIDANT (Without Scaring Him Away)
If you’ve ever stared at your phone thinking:
“Am I coming on too strong? Did I say the wrong thing? Why do they always pull away when all I want is connection?” this guide is for you.
The truth? Most anxious daters unknowingly text in ways that push avoidants further away:
❌ Double texts and “just checking in?” (they feel like pressure)
❌ Long explanations (they overwhelm his nervous system instead of creating closeness)
❌ One wrong reply that is enough to shut him down for days
✨ The Fix (Your Free Guide)
✅ 6 copy and paste texts
✅ BONUS: 6 texts to never send
✅ BONUS: 4 texting rules strategies that stop overthinking and flip distance into connection.
💌 Stop overthinking & flip distance into connection for free right now
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